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At the end of the day, if someone wants to be in your life, they will be. If they are truly worthy, they will put together the effort, they will turn up. If they do not, let that be your closure.

Nevertheless, you do not have to loathe them. You do not have to recall their contributions to your life as anything but delightful. Do not wreck them in your senses, do not clasp until you feel the wrath. Rather, adore them without attachment. Admire the lessons they taught you. Wish them generously every single time you think about them. Miss them, but do not agonize for them to come back. If the people in your life left because they were not ready to virtue you, or adore you, or be there for you, do not wish for them back, do not ask for them to be more than they can be at the moment. Wish for them to figure themselves out. Wish for them to grow. They are on their own quest, a quest you are not a part of. And that is okay. You've to learn that - that is okay.

So rather on focusing on the people who left, focus on the people in your life who have chosen to be there. Focus on the one's who stayed, on the one's who recognizes you and cherish you. Focus on the people who match the love you give them, focus on the people who endow you and grow you and make your life beautiful. You are enclosed by human beings who will not shy away from the love you give. You are enclosed who know that they crave you in their life, people who show you every single day. Do not take them for granted. Do not relinquish touch of what you have, sprinting what you no longer do.

Count me on this, you will miss out on beautiful things if you continue to stay embedded in all of the ways you were wronged if you continue to let your past pull you from experiencing what the present has to offer you. Do not close yourself off to your potential. Instead, open yourself to the world, and allow for it to fill that space with the kinds of people, the kinds of moments, and the kinds of experiences that thrill you, that urge you, that make you love yourself, and your life, and what you have to offer, more and more each day.

You need someone who wants to be there when it's ragged and when it's arduous, not just when it's fun and when it's convenient. And you need someone who chooses you when it might not be the easiest choice. And you need someone who would rather do nothing with you than anything in the world with someone else.  

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