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Make a difference

At the end of the day, if someone wants to be in your life, they will be. If they are truly worthy, they will put together the effort, they will turn up. If they do not, let that be your closure. Nevertheless, you do not have to loathe them. You do not have to recall their contributions to your life as anything but delightful. Do not wreck them in your senses, do not clasp until you feel the wrath. Rather, adore them without attachment. Admire the lessons they taught you. Wish them generously every single time you think about them. Miss them, but do not agonize for them to come back. If the people in your life left because they were not ready to virtue you, or adore you, or be there for you, do not wish for them back, do not ask for them to be more than they can be at the moment. Wish for them to figure themselves out. Wish for them to grow. They are on their own quest, a quest you are not a part of. And that is okay. You've to learn that - that is okay. So rather on focusing o...

Be the Change - Relationship

Every relationship will get tiring after you've been together for years but purely if you let it. Love isn't a feeling it is more about commitment, to love every day physically as well as emotionally. It's tough, it is not always to laugh and fun. One will call it off when it stops being fun, and then they look for someone else because the spark is gone. Now that's not how it works. You want somebody to never give up on you and love you unconditionally, but do you do the same? That's the big question you should ever ask yourself? Do the same what you expect. Rather than asking people to change be the change. This isn't Bollywood where things will end on a better and happier note, that isn't real. Love someone when you don't want to and most important when they're a pathetic asshole. When they're being hard to love and that's the real shit you've to deal with. Understand the difference.